Ten Tips How Authors Can Become Friends With Their Public

Meeting potential readers and trying to sell your bookif you've been to Rhode Island and someone is
can feel overwhelming for an author, especially anwearing a t-shirt that says Rhode Island on it, you
introverted one. Authors tend to forget that readerscan use that as an icebreaker). Being friendly is a
are often pre-determined to like them because beingsoft-sell-you're selling yourself as a nice person, and
an author implies that you are a "celebrity" in theirthat will help to sell your book, even if you don't
eyes. Since readers are likely already warmed up tomention your book. Once you make people feel
want to talk to you about your book, here are somecomfortable with you, they are likely to ask you
simple tips for making contact with potential readersabout your books and then you can sell them.
that will help you to sell books. Since most shy6. Don't Hide
writers probably aren't going to be out doing publicRecently, I went to an event where numerous
speaking right away but might be coerced into doingauthors were signing their books. I knew one of the
a book signing, I'll focus primarily on how to buildauthors quite well-had spoken to him on several
rapport with potential customers at your bookother occasions, but I didn't speak to him at this
signing.event. Why? Because he had his laptop propped up
1. Visualize the Event Before You Goon his table and was busy typing away. Twice I
I can't begin to tell you how important it is towalked past him and not once did he look up so I did
visualize the event before it happens. It will calm yournot talk to him, and I certainly didn't buy his book. No
nerves and prepare you for success. So manyone wants to feel they've interrupted a writer, not
authors are nervous about their first book signing-willeven to buy one of his books. I've seen other
anyone come, will I sell any books, will people not likeauthors sit and read books and never glance up. I
my books-that they forget to enjoy themselves.understand you're shy, but what these behaviors tell
Make sure you are prepared to go early so you'rethe audience is, "Don't bother me." Trust me, they
not rushing around at the last minute to get ready.won't, and you won't sell any books.
Then spend five or ten minutes sitting quietly and7. Don't Build an Invisible Line
envisioning everything going smoothly from arrivingSome authors sabotage themselves when speaking
early to talking to readers and selling books. You willto their public. While you may not be shy, something
then go to your signing feeling calm, excited, andas simple as introducing yourself as "Mr. Richardson"
ready to succeed. You can use the points below toor "Ms. Lovelace" is going to turn customers off
help you visualize how to make the event successful.more quickly than if you say you're "Fred" or "Ellen."
2. Arrive EarlyReaders want to be treated like friends, and formal
Nothing is worse than being late, or at least beingnames create a distance with readers. Body language,
nervous about being late. Give yourself plenty oflooking bored, or ignoring customers by not saying
time to arrive early. You'll want time to get used tohello will also build invisible lines which make customers
the location, to feel comfortable there, to set upfeel you don't really want to talk to them.
your table, place your books on it, lay out8. Sell Yourself
bookmarkers, put up a poster, whatever isIn selling your book, you need to sell yourself. When
necessary. You will feel better from being preparedyou meet people at book signings or other events,
and that will make you more open to meeting peoplethey will do business with you if they like you, so be
calmly rather than feeling stressed because you'repersonable. Rather than say, "My book is about" say,
unpacking books five minutes after the book signing"I wrote this book because of an interesting
is supposed to start while a customer stands waitingexperience I had." Tell them about yourself. Give
for you to talk to him.them an interesting presentation about you-your
3. Build Rapport With the Staffbook is only an extension of you. Make them want
Whether it's a public speaking event or a bookto know more about you, which in turn will lead them
signing, getting there early also gives you theto wanting to purchase your book.
opportunity to befriend the staff. This contact is9. Give Them Something Tangible so They
extremely important. I can't tell you how many timesRemember You
I've gone to book signings where the store staffEven if people don't seem inclined to buy your book,
have told me horror stories about other demanding,be friendly. Hand them book-markers, offer them
late, or rude authors whom they haven't invited back.candy if you have some at your table, or at least a
You want to make friends with the staff. If youbrochure. Few people will refuse to take such items if
make a good impression, the bookstore employeesonly to be polite. More importantly, they have
or conference planners are just as likely to say goodsomething to bring home with them. Many will throw
things about you to your potential readers. Beingaway your marketing pieces, but when they clean
friendly with them will also make them more likely toout their pockets or shopping bags, it will at least
lead customers over to where you are signing booksremind them one more time about your book.
and to recommend your books to customers in the10. Stay in Touch
days and weeks following the event.The best way to stay in touch with your readers is
4. Greet the Audience Individually Beforehandto invite people to sign up for your email newsletter.
If you are speaking in public, it's a good idea not onlyAlways have a signup sheet on your table, and don't
to get there early but to engage the audiencebe afraid to ask people to sign up. That way, you
members individually so you have friends listening tocan stay in touch with them in the future through
you. Don't hide in a nearby room so you can make amonthly updates or just to let them know when you
splashy (cheesy) appearance or sit up front lookingare doing a book signing or have a new book out.
uncomfortable. Stand by the door and shake handsFor the shy author, a newsletter will allow you to
or walk among the audience, introducing yourself tostay in touch with your audience without having to
people and getting to know a little about them. Asktalk to them in person and you may be better at
them why they came and what they would like youpresenting yourself through writing in the newsletter
to talk about. Remember, you're the guestthan speaking to them. Plus, you're building a
speaker-you're a celebrity in their eyes-they will loverelationship with those readers so they will keep
the personal attention. Even if they are shy, they willcoming back, and next time you do a book signing,
remember you and like you. I once was asked topeople on your newsletter list will show up-ready to
speak to a group of teachers, which included dinnerbuy your book so you won't have to work so hard
before my talk. I sat next to a woman who was notat selling.
a member but just a guest of the group. I heardFollow my advice to overcome your shyness in
afterwards from one of the teachers present howmeeting your public, and then follow it again and
privileged the woman had said she felt to sit next toagain. Do as many book signings and public speaking
the guest speaker at dinner even though she wasn'tevents as possible. The more you do, the more you
a member of the group.will become comfortable being a public figure.
5. Prepare Remarks and Comments BeforehandRemember, people are already pre-programmed to
If you're shy, thinking of things to discuss beforehandlike you just because you're an author, a celebrity, so
can really help to break the ice. It may be as simpleyou have nothing to fear. You wouldn't want to
as commenting upon the weather, about a recentmeet your favorite author, only to have him or her
event in the community, bringing up something aboutonly say two words or ignore you completely, so
your book that will relate to your audience, or evenmake sure you give your potential readers an
simply planning to notice things about people that youexperience that will delight them and that they will
can comment on (not their personal appearance, butlong remember, simply by your being friendly.